play with yourself

A sex (and masturbation) positive blog from a couple who enjoy themselves as well as each other. We talk about sexual health, masturbation and break open the lid on our own sex toy chest to share what we are finding most fun. You can read more about us here. We're flattered you care but, if you don't, you can scroll down to see our latest toys and guides.

Masturbation Toys and Techniques

Whether you're using these toys by yourself or together, some are just plain better than others. The sad truth is... most suck. I don't mean that in a good way.

The vast majority of generic toys are meh at best and there's a huge amount of choice out there. Our view is if you're going to do it (and you are) you might as well do it right. So you can see our reviews here, as well as our roundup lists and techniques on how we got the most out of them.

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Playing With Yourself Can Also Save Your Life

While playing with yourself can be a whole lot of fun, it can also save your life. There's a range of health benefits to a healthy approach to sex and masturbation but it's also a fantastic opportunity to check yourself.

I mean, your hands are already down there anyway.

Check yourself

Follow these 3 simple steps

Step 1

Take your scrotum and hold it in the palm of your hands.

Step 2

With each hand, gently use your fingers and thumb to check your testicles.

Step 3

Ask yourself: does one feel bigger, or heavier, than the other? Can you feel any hard lumps? Or smooth rounded bumps?

Find something?

If the answer is ‘yes’, don’t panic

Remember, this is 97% curable if found early.

Also, keep in mind that not all lumps or irregularities are actually a problem. But only a doctor can tell you for sure.

So don’t delay. See your GP immediately.

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Game of Balls

In a world first, a public health message can be found in the middle of a real adult movie.
With a flesh-and-bones demo of how to check for testicular cancer.

For April – World Testicular Cancer Month – Digital Playground included this life-saving message in the middle of parody film ‘Game of Balls’, scheduled for the April 12 release of season five of Game of Thrones, Australia’s highest-rating pay TV show. The message is delivered by Digital Playground’s 2015 star Eva Lovia.

SYNOPSIS: Winter is coming… Eva Lovia patiently awaits for her powerful King. He arrives at their castle with his knight, and is asked to be alone with his beautiful lady to discuss their marriage. And most importantly, to consummate their royal union before battle begins.

Starring Eva Lovia

Eva Lovia is friendly, ambitious, and confident, she recently graduated with a degree in Psychology. After doing some part-time modeling and webcam work before, Eva began to feel the call of fame, and decided to star in her first adult film.

Despite being a fresh face in the industry, Eva soon started catching the attention of fans and critics alike – and her rise to stardom has been rapid.

When she’s not on the big screen, or helping out a charity, you can find Eva hanging out with her dog Lady, and doing outdoor activities like kayaking, hiking and working on her tan. That might be the southern California native coming out, but her charm and appeal definitely come from upstate New York where she was raised.